Wednesday, September 15, 2010

勇敢去敲未知的門

1. 做一個值得長期投資的保值品
希望被大家認識,建立自己的「品牌」與「聲譽」最要緊,這些看似無形的資產,其實是非常重要的價值鏈。

2. 日日是好日
日日是「好日」或是「歹日」,只在一念之間。想成功,就必須正面看待生命中的各種挑戰,當作最佳的學習機會。

3. 唸不唸MBA?不重要
重點不在於你有沒有「唸一個學位」,而是你的學習態度與吸收能力。
掌握有效的學習方法是關鍵,而學習是無所不在的。

4. 做「大聲牛」,說出你的不同
如今是人才濟濟的時代,如果你不主動凸顯自己的優點,老闆怎麼知道你的本事?用你和用別人有什麼不一樣?
態度不囂張,行動有熱情。

5. 彎腰,是必要的
千萬不能自以為「老大」什麼都懂,其實是什麼都不懂。
放低身段虛心努力。

6. 擁抱過去,勝於緬懷過去
企業看的是前景,換新老闆的目的,就是期待新的氣象與作為。身為組織裡的舊人,需要調整心態,接受新的價值與做法。
以誠待人,換來心服與口服。

7. 藍海來自核心專長
創新並非從空而降,必須根據既有的基礎,先找出自己喜歡做的事與核心專長,再發揚光大,因為那才是最具競爭力的部分。

8. 工作不是永恆的天堂
預防被「勒」掉,平時一定要懂得居安思危,最好還能有第二專長,和外面保持接觸,累積各種人脈關係與能見度。
一個人效忠的不是某個企業或是老闆,而是自己的專業。

9. 積極樂觀,總能東山再起
絕不讓自己掉進什麼事也不想做的深淵,始終正面肯定自己過去的成就,那是一個人自信的來源,也是重新出發的本錢。

10. 爭取加薪前,先替自己加值
老闆決定要提拔某個員工的時候,不管是升遷或是加薪,一定是先考慮自己(公司)的需求,而不是員工的需求。
爭取加薪一定要心平氣和,可以試著誠懇的問老闆,如何做,才能加薪。

11. 帶人要帶心
身為組織領導人,絕不能高高在上,而是要讓部屬感受到你是和他們站在同一陣線上。當你珍惜他們,他們也會反過頭來回報你。

12. 好公司勝過好主管
一個好公司值得下注投資,為了保住工作,委曲求全、忍受壞主管,可說是另一種必要之惡。
壞主管並不是你生命的全部,可以把壞主管當成考驗你的「試煉」。

13. 你是Boss-Hater嗎?
老闆能爬到今天的位置,表示他有某些長處,在某些方面的能力超越你,你應該去學習、品嚐,而不是抱怨。
學會欣賞老闆的優點。

14. 跟著內心直覺前進
生命短暫,不要浪費時間活在別人的陰影裡,也不要盲目跟隨教條,讓別人的噪音壓過自己的聲音。
人生有時就像被磚頭砸到,但不要失去信心。最重要的,一定要找到自己的熱愛,並且要有勇氣跟著自己內心的直覺,自始自終相信它。

15. 價值觀可以很多元
自我提升不一定是繼續往上爬,橫向發展第二專長也是一種能力的拓展,幫助自己發掘潛能,打開更寬廣的領域。

16. 投向「底特律」的懷抱
確實弄清楚你到底是為了誰而做工作。否則,到了某個時間點,你的「底特律」肯定會在那邊大聲地呼喚你。
「底特律」指的是興趣,它並非絕對天生,而是可以靠後天培養,邊做邊找出真正的興趣。
為自己的興趣工作。

17. 蹲下去,是為了跳得更遠
當一個人蹲下去的時候,別人或許以為他矮了一截,但其實他是為了跳得更遠!
用規模換取視野。

18. 發牢騷,只有自己最受傷
要掙脫牢騷族,就必須學習「正面思考」,遇到挫折先想辦法轉移注意力,把思考焦點集中在解決方案,找出如何做,才是對自己最有利。
負面情緒只有殺傷力,正面思考才有力量。

19. 天塌下來,主管要能頂著
做主管的確要有擔當、有肩膀,即使是手下員工出了差錯,你也要一肩扛下,而不是推諉搪塞。

20. 想想老闆為什麼發脾氣
若是老闆罵你,你要仔細去推敲背後到底是什麼意思,揣摩他的心態。
員工和老闆相處是一門藝術,儘量多溝通,只談事實,不夾雜情緒。

21. 品德至上
一個人在職場上要非常敬業、專業,這已是基本配備,品德操守才是真正的「首要之務」。
「道德」與「誠信」是日積月累的資產,重要性絕對超過個人專業素養。

22. 成功為成功之母
能幫助自己打開成功之門的,除了專業能力,人際關係的「軟性技巧」,經常能夠發生意想不到的效果。
想辦法讓他人更成功,今日你助人一臂之力,他日別人就會投桃報李。
「人」不是萬能,沒有「人」萬萬不能。

23. 老闆永遠是貴人
七分努力,三分機運,有了貴人提攜,不僅能縮短成功的時間,還能壯大自己的籌碼。

24. 公正、透明,才有心悅誠服
處理辦公室政治的過程,維持公正與透明,組織上下彼此建立信任,就可以將衝擊減至最低程度。
落實公平程序的三E原則:參與(Engagement)、解釋(Explanation)、與期望透明化(Clarity of Expectation)。

25. 把老闆當客戶
把老闆也當成客戶,學習如何管理他、歷練他、適應他、欣賞他,很多問題便可以迎刃而解。
不和老闆正面衝突,別人不贊同你的想法,並不表示別人就是墮落。

26. 和全世界競爭
你的競爭對手,不是坐在隔壁的人,也不是同業,而是一個遠在天邊的陌生人。
世界是平的,不進步,就被淘汰。

27. 世界被抹平,挑戰隨之而來
全球化已是不可避免的趨勢,新一代工作人面臨的跳戰是,工作環境不只限於一個國家地區,競爭對手也來自四面八方。
設法成為「碰不得的人」---工作不能外包的人。
「碰不得的人」分為四類:太特殊、太專業、太深耕、太會調適,才能讓人碰不得。
世界真的是平的!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Personality Test ~ "Get to Know Yourself Better"

Test yourself with below link;
http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx


*******Below are my result******

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on educationEducation is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.

How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

Monday, June 22, 2009

45 lessons of life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it..
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple..
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?". 27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32.. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35.. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Creative Mind 2


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Sunday, June 7, 2009

Creative Mind


Business Card from a Couples Therapist